"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When to drop

jimjam

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Gentlemen,

I've a date on Thursday night where I'm going over to her house for dinner. She's cooking. Now, as some of you know, I haven't done anything like this in quite some time. I'm older and I have to take pills if I want to perform. Not saying what's going to happen but.......my question: Should I drop a pill before I go over or after I'm there if things start cooking.

On the one hand, I'll be ready but if nothing happens I'll be stuck with it for four hours or so. On the other hand, announcing that I need to take something kills all spontaneity but at least I'm honest.

Also, I have script for Cialis and Levitra. Cialis is hit and miss with me. I'd hate to take it and have a headache and nothing else. Levitra works all the time on me but like I said, I'd have to announce it.

Your thoughts?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MtnMan

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surely you can just excuse yourself to the bathroom and take it if things seem like they are heating up.
 

jimjam

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You're right of course. Probably overthinking everything
 

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This is another good reason to buy the generic stuff. It's so much cheaper that it's not a big deal to waste it.

Pop it 20 min before you eat on an empty stomach and you will be good for 3-4 hours. Or wait an hour after you eat, and another hour for it to take effect. It depends on the timing of dinner and how close it is to bedtime.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Zarky

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I've become deft at removing half a pill from my pocket and swallowing it dry while she's not looking ;)

Funny things have happened though when stuff heated up "too fast." I thought things weren't going to happen, so I left the pill in my pocket, and then it suddenly it became clear that they were, so I swallowed the pill and then tried to stall for an hour. "Those are some really nice bathroom towels, where'd you get them?" hahaa
 
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