"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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When to drop

jimjam

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Gentlemen,

I've a date on Thursday night where I'm going over to her house for dinner. She's cooking. Now, as some of you know, I haven't done anything like this in quite some time. I'm older and I have to take pills if I want to perform. Not saying what's going to happen but.......my question: Should I drop a pill before I go over or after I'm there if things start cooking.

On the one hand, I'll be ready but if nothing happens I'll be stuck with it for four hours or so. On the other hand, announcing that I need to take something kills all spontaneity but at least I'm honest.

Also, I have script for Cialis and Levitra. Cialis is hit and miss with me. I'd hate to take it and have a headache and nothing else. Levitra works all the time on me but like I said, I'd have to announce it.

Your thoughts?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MtnMan

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surely you can just excuse yourself to the bathroom and take it if things seem like they are heating up.
 

jimjam

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You're right of course. Probably overthinking everything
 

Bible_Belt

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This is another good reason to buy the generic stuff. It's so much cheaper that it's not a big deal to waste it.

Pop it 20 min before you eat on an empty stomach and you will be good for 3-4 hours. Or wait an hour after you eat, and another hour for it to take effect. It depends on the timing of dinner and how close it is to bedtime.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Zarky

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I've become deft at removing half a pill from my pocket and swallowing it dry while she's not looking ;)

Funny things have happened though when stuff heated up "too fast." I thought things weren't going to happen, so I left the pill in my pocket, and then it suddenly it became clear that they were, so I swallowed the pill and then tried to stall for an hour. "Those are some really nice bathroom towels, where'd you get them?" hahaa
 
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