Hey guys,
Well I've recently been trying the online game to help with my inexperience in the dating world. I've met a couple of chicks (chubbers, but nice) but nothing amazing. But it has helped me a bit with my confidence in approaching in real life as well. I show up and just act like i'm not nervous at all and try and make the conversation light and funny, and I think i'm doing ok on that end.
Just had a meet up last night for some coffee. This girl is young, 21, i'm 26. Surprisingly, I find her attractive, but I didn't act like a beta or AFC. Just acted the same as I had with the other chicks I met, tried to tease a bit and smile alot. She admits she's shy and very quiet in real life and on her profile, so I had to sort of bring her out, but at the same time I was wondering if she felt any attraction towards me. As the meeting progressed, she did start twirling her hair and moving a bit closer, but i'm not reading into that at this point. I controlled the conversation, she didn't really seem to have many questions about me. Now I know chicks at this age can be flakey, but just the fact she took the risk to show up and meet me instead of flaking says alot to me. I honestly think she is just a shy chick.
Anway, question is, when should I contact again. I mentioned Dinner next week on the same night, and she said that sounded good. But in between then, when would you guys give her a call just to talk briefly and set that up? She's going to her hometown in NM in a couple weeks so I'd like to get in a couple dates and escalate before she leaves, but don't want to break the once a week rule i've set. And I also plan on continuing to meet others, I just don't normally set up a date this early in the week, normally towards wednesday or thursday, then I just follow up on the weekend.
Well I've recently been trying the online game to help with my inexperience in the dating world. I've met a couple of chicks (chubbers, but nice) but nothing amazing. But it has helped me a bit with my confidence in approaching in real life as well. I show up and just act like i'm not nervous at all and try and make the conversation light and funny, and I think i'm doing ok on that end.
Just had a meet up last night for some coffee. This girl is young, 21, i'm 26. Surprisingly, I find her attractive, but I didn't act like a beta or AFC. Just acted the same as I had with the other chicks I met, tried to tease a bit and smile alot. She admits she's shy and very quiet in real life and on her profile, so I had to sort of bring her out, but at the same time I was wondering if she felt any attraction towards me. As the meeting progressed, she did start twirling her hair and moving a bit closer, but i'm not reading into that at this point. I controlled the conversation, she didn't really seem to have many questions about me. Now I know chicks at this age can be flakey, but just the fact she took the risk to show up and meet me instead of flaking says alot to me. I honestly think she is just a shy chick.
Anway, question is, when should I contact again. I mentioned Dinner next week on the same night, and she said that sounded good. But in between then, when would you guys give her a call just to talk briefly and set that up? She's going to her hometown in NM in a couple weeks so I'd like to get in a couple dates and escalate before she leaves, but don't want to break the once a week rule i've set. And I also plan on continuing to meet others, I just don't normally set up a date this early in the week, normally towards wednesday or thursday, then I just follow up on the weekend.
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