"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When to change jobs?

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TheMainMan

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I work as a Construction Manager which is fairly well paid.

The problem is the hours are long- 60/week if you count travel and I meet absolutely f*** all women in the day due to working on building sites.

I've got sick of it and am thinking of getting an office job in my local city with a Construction Consultancy, which is kind of in the same line of work- would have no travel, 40hrs/week and likely to meet a lot more women about town.

When do you know when its time to leave jobs? I'm tied to my firm in a way because I've worked out the system there so things are pretty easy and I've also a lot of good friends there.

Any ideas on how to way up the pros and cons of each? I don't want to regret moving but don't want to waste my 20's working all hours.

Cheers.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I would change jobs if i were u... Life is a journey and u only live it once... so go ahead and change, i mean... if you are unhappy as it is, then the worst that will happen is that you will STILL be unhappy with your job;)

Goodluck... with whatever choice you make:rolleyes:
 
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Cheers guys.

Your right. One life live it.
 
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