"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When to change jobs?

TheMainMan

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I work as a Construction Manager which is fairly well paid.

The problem is the hours are long- 60/week if you count travel and I meet absolutely f*** all women in the day due to working on building sites.

I've got sick of it and am thinking of getting an office job in my local city with a Construction Consultancy, which is kind of in the same line of work- would have no travel, 40hrs/week and likely to meet a lot more women about town.

When do you know when its time to leave jobs? I'm tied to my firm in a way because I've worked out the system there so things are pretty easy and I've also a lot of good friends there.

Any ideas on how to way up the pros and cons of each? I don't want to regret moving but don't want to waste my 20's working all hours.

Cheers.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Climax

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I would change jobs if i were u... Life is a journey and u only live it once... so go ahead and change, i mean... if you are unhappy as it is, then the worst that will happen is that you will STILL be unhappy with your job;)

Goodluck... with whatever choice you make:rolleyes:
 

TheMainMan

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Cheers guys.

Your right. One life live it.
 
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