"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When to change jobs?

TheMainMan

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I work as a Construction Manager which is fairly well paid.

The problem is the hours are long- 60/week if you count travel and I meet absolutely f*** all women in the day due to working on building sites.

I've got sick of it and am thinking of getting an office job in my local city with a Construction Consultancy, which is kind of in the same line of work- would have no travel, 40hrs/week and likely to meet a lot more women about town.

When do you know when its time to leave jobs? I'm tied to my firm in a way because I've worked out the system there so things are pretty easy and I've also a lot of good friends there.

Any ideas on how to way up the pros and cons of each? I don't want to regret moving but don't want to waste my 20's working all hours.

Cheers.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Climax

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I would change jobs if i were u... Life is a journey and u only live it once... so go ahead and change, i mean... if you are unhappy as it is, then the worst that will happen is that you will STILL be unhappy with your job;)

Goodluck... with whatever choice you make:rolleyes:
 

TheMainMan

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Cheers guys.

Your right. One life live it.
 
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