"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hi all,

I met this girl at a club on Friday...

I gave it the ****y and funny approach and she loved it. I was a little drunk but I do remember making some jokes about what she was wearing and the town she was from and she kept playfully hitting me because of the jokes..

We had a kiss and I took her number and she was like you won't call. I said yeah, yeah, I will... stay by the phone!

How long should I hold out before calling?

I was thinking about firing her a funny text or something on Monday/Tuesday then perhaps following up with a call and seeing if she is up meeting up.

Sound about the right time to hold out?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Shouldn't you first get an idea of what you want to do with her the next time you see each other? Who knows, you may plan something that you could do tomorrow or the day after.

I just think it will cut down on wasted time when you do decide to call her. Hopefully she'll still remember you.
 
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You don't have to strictly follow the rules, when the time feels right, at LEAST 2 days, then u shoudl call, and make sure u have a plan in mind. You call up this time to plan the date- should be max of 5 minute conversation. Plan the date, and then make ur moves there, get em son :woo:
 
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yeah, I was gonna send a ****y text and follow it up with a call, but your right I think I will go straight to the call tomorrow, thats 4 days :)

Just be funny for a few minutes and then line up a date for later in the week.
 
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