"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When to call after F close?

sexxyback

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Say you just F closed a girl, you leave in the morning, and she says 'call me'.

When would you call her? If you really like her and want to F her again, do you just let her call you?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sexxyback

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i knew someone would say that...

so is it ok if i call the minute i get home? is it ok if i call back a year later?
can i cal; 5 times a day?

sorry, i'm looking for a better answer than that.
 

Raikojo17

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what i mean by my answer is that guys on thi s site get too caught in these rules and theories.

there are really NO rules in dating. there are guidelines (not being too needy, clingy) stuff like that, but no rules.

call whenever u feel like it. call when YOU have time, not when u think she isnt gonna think ur needy or watever. Talk when YOU want too. dont base everything you do on what she might think of you, because if she doesnt like it than she can just get lost.

you only appear needy if you are needy. if you realise that she's one of billions of girls on this planet and you could have another her in a second, then you wont be needy.

you could be just as needy waiting 3 weeks to call as you are waiting 3 seconds to call.
 

IamtheAlphamale

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Yeah I'm gonna have to completely agree. This site is pure guidelines, it teaches you how to improve yourself as well but don't feel like you have to follow some set of rules. Basically girls are most attracted to the most secure guy so if you do insecure **** she will lose interest. I've called girls the next day before and generally for me it works better than 5 days later. I'm starting to like 2 days myself. Like last time I closed saterday and called monday night. To be completely honest man.. the more you screw up the more stepping stones you have to build the new you... so any screw up just makes you better anyways.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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