"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When to call after F close?

sexxyback

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Say you just F closed a girl, you leave in the morning, and she says 'call me'.

When would you call her? If you really like her and want to F her again, do you just let her call you?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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sexxyback

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i knew someone would say that...

so is it ok if i call the minute i get home? is it ok if i call back a year later?
can i cal; 5 times a day?

sorry, i'm looking for a better answer than that.
 

Raikojo17

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what i mean by my answer is that guys on thi s site get too caught in these rules and theories.

there are really NO rules in dating. there are guidelines (not being too needy, clingy) stuff like that, but no rules.

call whenever u feel like it. call when YOU have time, not when u think she isnt gonna think ur needy or watever. Talk when YOU want too. dont base everything you do on what she might think of you, because if she doesnt like it than she can just get lost.

you only appear needy if you are needy. if you realise that she's one of billions of girls on this planet and you could have another her in a second, then you wont be needy.

you could be just as needy waiting 3 weeks to call as you are waiting 3 seconds to call.
 

IamtheAlphamale

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Yeah I'm gonna have to completely agree. This site is pure guidelines, it teaches you how to improve yourself as well but don't feel like you have to follow some set of rules. Basically girls are most attracted to the most secure guy so if you do insecure **** she will lose interest. I've called girls the next day before and generally for me it works better than 5 days later. I'm starting to like 2 days myself. Like last time I closed saterday and called monday night. To be completely honest man.. the more you screw up the more stepping stones you have to build the new you... so any screw up just makes you better anyways.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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