"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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when to ask for a second "date"

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hi
i went out with this girl last weekend but she brought her friend too.. well the thing is i'm already friends with this girl (the one i dig) but she brought her friend because she was visiting from somewhere and she couldnt leave her home...
anyways it was a good night but nothing happened because of the friend... now i was wondering if i should ask her to join me this weekend again? is it too early or anything? its because i have exams coming up and after this week im pretty screwed for 2/3 weeks...
thank you for your help
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sure call her up but ask if ses bringing her friend, tell her that if she is youll bring a friend for her friend just so she knows whats up
 
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Call when you feel comfortable, and you want to do something. And if you want to do something this weekend go for it.

-Grey Fox
 
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btw what does it mean when a girl tells u if she likes a guy she wont do ANYTHING, hes the one who has to do sometin? is that a hint? i gotta go for a kiss to get my question answered? thanks
 
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First what did she actually say, and in english. Next what was she doing in terms of how she was acting towards you, extra friendly or dissmissive and passive? Finally how do you feel about what she did, do you feel like she was really speaking about you?

Have fun trying to answer those questions! I promise you will roll them over in your mind for days and days at a time. Instead what you should do is MAKE A MOVE, be a little bold, be brave, be charming, show some interest! She may just want you too!

-Grey Fox
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm in no position yet to give advice, but in your thread title you stated you are asking her out on a second date...

From what it looks like, you haven't had a first date yet...
 
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