“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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when to ask a girl to prom.

oElS

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When should you ask a girl to prom, 3 months ahead, 2?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TyTe`EyEs

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That sounds alright. I don't think you can ask too early, but you could ask too late.
 

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Originally posted by TyTe`EyEs
I don't think you can ask too early, but you could ask too late.
Definitely. You don't want to wait too long or they'll all have dates already.
 

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christ! asking a chick to a dance thats 3months down the road!!??? damn.

a couple of weeks worked fine for me.
 

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It'll be really simple; just ask about the time of year when everyone starts talking about it. (One year I actually got my date 4 days before the prom. I don't reccommend waiting that long.)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Centaurion
christ! asking a chick to a dance thats 3months down the road!!??? damn.

a couple of weeks worked fine for me.
At my school everyone had their dates a month before at the latest for the most part.
 

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This may not be helpful to you.... or it may be very helpful to you:

They are asking me, not the other way around.
 
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