Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
what if she was hiding visiting him during this period and you found out months down the road that she was? (I've seen this happen)And if you were in a LTR with her and she is friends with the same friends as him how are you going to keep them apart?Desdinova said:
how did you frame it? and she always sees the ex because he is part of the same crew. how does when ask the girl to stop hanging out with her friends?mrRuckus said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Then I kick her to the curb. I don't need to be involved with a lying b1tch.
That's understandable since she's not making an effort to see him. If she calls him or makes plans with him, then she's being disrespectful.