You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
what if she was hiding visiting him during this period and you found out months down the road that she was? (I've seen this happen)And if you were in a LTR with her and she is friends with the same friends as him how are you going to keep them apart?Desdinova said:
how did you frame it? and she always sees the ex because he is part of the same crew. how does when ask the girl to stop hanging out with her friends?mrRuckus said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Then I kick her to the curb. I don't need to be involved with a lying b1tch.
That's understandable since she's not making an effort to see him. If she calls him or makes plans with him, then she's being disrespectful.