"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

When they say....

L

lowpoint

New Member
Joined
Jun 18, 2004
Messages
5
Reaction score
0
Location
SO CAL
When they say.......

"You're such a boy!"

-Not a good thing

"You're such a guy!"

-Kind of a good thing, you're on the way...

"You're such a man!"

-You're there!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

A

AFK Protector

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 3, 2004
Messages
1,596
Reaction score
4
Location
United States of America
Originally posted by lowpoint
When they say.......

"You're such a boy!"

-Not a good thing

"You're such a guy!"

-Kind of a good thing, you're on the way...

"You're such a man!"

-You're there!
Click to expand...
I know youmean well and all...and I get the jist...




But I have never met such a woman loser who says stuff like that. "You're such a boy!"

WHAT THE HELL? Hm...maybe my relatives were losers when I was a kid...meh.
 
C

Cleric

Banned
Joined
Jul 22, 2004
Messages
71
Reaction score
1
Age
44
Location
Australia
It's even better when they say "you're such a bastard!" with a teasing smile and a little smack on the arm.
 
E

Eternal

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 7, 2001
Messages
5,511
Reaction score
10
When they say "Moved to Don Juan Discussion."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top