"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Stacks Of Terror

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What do I do when she hits me. I've improved a lot from where was when I started but I still get lost when things get physical. I just don't feel comfortable hitting females even when its just playing.


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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I obviously would not recommend hitting her, regardless of whether it is playing or not - that's pretty much common sense. Hitting is a good sign when you tease her, she can take a joke. I would take things to the next level, start possibly holding her hand. Or better yet, do something such as the following. Take baby steps of physical closeness - as it seems you have no problem talking with her and creating rapport.

This example may not apply to you, but it will help you understand the concepts needed to build physical closeness towards her... and will create ATTRACTION between the 2 of you.

Let's say you were going out with her to the movies as friends, and as you open the door of your car to take her out, you give out your hand for her to hold. However, when you grab her hand, hold on to it for a little longer than normal. BUT the moment you feel she will pull away, YOU need to pull away and make a ****y remark with a smirk on your face such as, "Hey! No holding hands this early!" And you say this as if it was her idea to hold onto her hand longer than normal. Little steps such as this one will create physical attraction, which is what women want went they hit you when you tease them. Try this out, and tell me what happens.

Nick.
 

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Alright I'll take that advice , thanks. I will let you know also
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gangster Of Love

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I would tell you what to do, but I don't believe minors should be having sex, so I won't tell you how to escalate from her hitting you, all the way to the bedroom (or van), if that is what you wanted to do with this one.
 

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Stick and move, bob and weave, slip, duck, dip, dodge, if the worse comes to the worst, go for the rope-a-dope technique.
 
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if it is a slap of anger - look at her and say "thats not avery nice thing to do now is it?"

If it is a slap of sexyness - grab her arms look her in the eyes throw her on the bed and say " you are in trouble now missy" and pull het trousers down, apply toung to her body kiss and lick sofftly all over keeping her hands above her head and then lick her ***** once you have teased her for like 15 mins.

then like her out for 30mins then **** her brains out over and over. try not to *** to fast but make her *** over and over.
 

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Do not spank her, unless she is the type of girl that is asking for something like that. It all matters on the girl as well, if she is reserved, you might invade her personal space, etc.
My idea would probably work the best BUT you need to make sure you give a smile at the end - as if it was a joke. Remember you are NOT trying to be an a-hole or appear as one, you want to appear as a charismatic, funny, ****y guy and you want her to be the one chasing after you, not the other way around.
Just an add-on to my last message.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If they are ticklish say, thats it missy. I didnt want to have to do this. That way you can get your hands all over her in places that would be unacceptable usually and tickle her. Girls love this. In my experience
 

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Stacks Of Terror said:
What do I do when she hits me. I've improved a lot from where was when I started but I still get lost when things get physical. I just don't feel comfortable hitting females even when its just playing.


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Start getting comfortable.

Kino escalation is a huge part of seducing a woman. You are going to have to get physical with her anyway, start it slow with hugs, hand holding all that crap. Then move up the scale to kisses, frolicking etc...

What i do, and it works for me, but every one is different. I love to combine kino with an alpha dominance frame embedded in the kino. I love to act scary, pick chicks up, twirl them around, carry them into different classes, throw them against wall etc...

They get comfortable with your touching, and they become submissive, and feel more attracted towards you as a result of the dominance you have shown. I don't know about you, but it works for me. Now if you weight nothing, have no build and isn't the type to be so hands on with women, don't try it.

Find a way to kino that is congruent with your image.
 

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wow some of these answers are interesting!

when a girl hits me, i tell her that in some parts of the country it can be considered sexual harassment and if it keeps up you will be forced to defend your manhood with a retaliatory spanking. 99% of the time she hits me again basically giving me permission to spank her.

she's literally hitting on you! she's telling you to take it further!
 

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Yeah in case anyone needs it pointing out, hitting = I want you to fuck me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If its flirting than fine, but if she slaps me i will slap her back.
I enoy every moment of flirting when things become physical.
 

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if my biatch hit me i would be cool about it
however when i'm fvckin her i will make her moan like whoa, i would make her pay for it with a sore pvssy
 

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when a girl hits me, i tell her that in some parts of the country it can be considered sexual harassment and if it keeps up you will be forced to defend your manhood with a retaliatory spanking. 99% of the time she hits me again basically giving me permission to spank her.
"Do this again and I'll have to spank that azz (grinning)". Usually she will do it again, no matter what lol.
 

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Here's a good one, "Hey! Keep it up and I'm calling my lawyer, just you wait!" or "That's sexual harassment!" It'll get a few laughs.
 

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Some of you guys are like robots...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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