"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Stacks Of Terror

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What do I do when she hits me. I've improved a lot from where was when I started but I still get lost when things get physical. I just don't feel comfortable hitting females even when its just playing.


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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Axcell

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I obviously would not recommend hitting her, regardless of whether it is playing or not - that's pretty much common sense. Hitting is a good sign when you tease her, she can take a joke. I would take things to the next level, start possibly holding her hand. Or better yet, do something such as the following. Take baby steps of physical closeness - as it seems you have no problem talking with her and creating rapport.

This example may not apply to you, but it will help you understand the concepts needed to build physical closeness towards her... and will create ATTRACTION between the 2 of you.

Let's say you were going out with her to the movies as friends, and as you open the door of your car to take her out, you give out your hand for her to hold. However, when you grab her hand, hold on to it for a little longer than normal. BUT the moment you feel she will pull away, YOU need to pull away and make a ****y remark with a smirk on your face such as, "Hey! No holding hands this early!" And you say this as if it was her idea to hold onto her hand longer than normal. Little steps such as this one will create physical attraction, which is what women want went they hit you when you tease them. Try this out, and tell me what happens.

Nick.
 

Stacks Of Terror

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Alright I'll take that advice , thanks. I will let you know also
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I would tell you what to do, but I don't believe minors should be having sex, so I won't tell you how to escalate from her hitting you, all the way to the bedroom (or van), if that is what you wanted to do with this one.
 

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Stick and move, bob and weave, slip, duck, dip, dodge, if the worse comes to the worst, go for the rope-a-dope technique.
 
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if it is a slap of anger - look at her and say "thats not avery nice thing to do now is it?"

If it is a slap of sexyness - grab her arms look her in the eyes throw her on the bed and say " you are in trouble now missy" and pull het trousers down, apply toung to her body kiss and lick sofftly all over keeping her hands above her head and then lick her ***** once you have teased her for like 15 mins.

then like her out for 30mins then **** her brains out over and over. try not to *** to fast but make her *** over and over.
 

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Do not spank her, unless she is the type of girl that is asking for something like that. It all matters on the girl as well, if she is reserved, you might invade her personal space, etc.
My idea would probably work the best BUT you need to make sure you give a smile at the end - as if it was a joke. Remember you are NOT trying to be an a-hole or appear as one, you want to appear as a charismatic, funny, ****y guy and you want her to be the one chasing after you, not the other way around.
Just an add-on to my last message.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If they are ticklish say, thats it missy. I didnt want to have to do this. That way you can get your hands all over her in places that would be unacceptable usually and tickle her. Girls love this. In my experience
 

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Stacks Of Terror said:
What do I do when she hits me. I've improved a lot from where was when I started but I still get lost when things get physical. I just don't feel comfortable hitting females even when its just playing.


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Start getting comfortable.

Kino escalation is a huge part of seducing a woman. You are going to have to get physical with her anyway, start it slow with hugs, hand holding all that crap. Then move up the scale to kisses, frolicking etc...

What i do, and it works for me, but every one is different. I love to combine kino with an alpha dominance frame embedded in the kino. I love to act scary, pick chicks up, twirl them around, carry them into different classes, throw them against wall etc...

They get comfortable with your touching, and they become submissive, and feel more attracted towards you as a result of the dominance you have shown. I don't know about you, but it works for me. Now if you weight nothing, have no build and isn't the type to be so hands on with women, don't try it.

Find a way to kino that is congruent with your image.
 

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wow some of these answers are interesting!

when a girl hits me, i tell her that in some parts of the country it can be considered sexual harassment and if it keeps up you will be forced to defend your manhood with a retaliatory spanking. 99% of the time she hits me again basically giving me permission to spank her.

she's literally hitting on you! she's telling you to take it further!
 

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Yeah in case anyone needs it pointing out, hitting = I want you to fuck me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If its flirting than fine, but if she slaps me i will slap her back.
I enoy every moment of flirting when things become physical.
 

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if my biatch hit me i would be cool about it
however when i'm fvckin her i will make her moan like whoa, i would make her pay for it with a sore pvssy
 

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when a girl hits me, i tell her that in some parts of the country it can be considered sexual harassment and if it keeps up you will be forced to defend your manhood with a retaliatory spanking. 99% of the time she hits me again basically giving me permission to spank her.
"Do this again and I'll have to spank that azz (grinning)". Usually she will do it again, no matter what lol.
 

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Here's a good one, "Hey! Keep it up and I'm calling my lawyer, just you wait!" or "That's sexual harassment!" It'll get a few laughs.
 

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Some of you guys are like robots...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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