“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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when they break it off and leave it somewhat open ended

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So ive been seeing this girl for 2 and a half months, she was gorgeous but we had nothing in common and not much to say. She decides to break it off. We message each other back and forth but it wasnt looking good for me in regards to getting her back.

I asked her if i could see her again and she replied with "i dont think it's a good idea. maybe sometime in the future not sure yet." For now I know its best to move on and find someone else. My question is this, will she actually ever come back sometime in the future say 6 months to a year from now or is she gone for good?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She's using you as a confidence boost, either that or she's not sure how she feels but it isn't promising. Lose her.
 

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gotcha, the whole confidence boost for her was what i think the whole premise of our relationship was. im a sophmore in college shes a high school senior probaly wanted to feel cool or something. i guess its time to move on, shucks.
 

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When you move on it may raise her interest levels lol don't be shocked at a call asking you back. Be strong :)
 

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i changed my myspace from single to in a relationship even after she defriended me, and sure enough the next day i got a IM from some random screenname, it was her obviously probing me asking questions about my "girlfriend" lol, i took it as an indicator of interest but right now it doesnt seem like she wants me at all. I even had a good friend of mine who she didnt know leave me a comment saying I love you so much haha but to no avail in the end.

Ugh silly high school girls :\
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dfe is seeing another dude!!!!!!
 

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Mystic said:
I asked her if i could see her again and she replied with "i dont think it's a good idea. maybe sometime in the future not sure yet." For now I know its best to move on and find someone else. My question is this, will she actually ever come back sometime in the future say 6 months to a year from now or is she gone for good?
You handed her your balls by asking that. I doubt she'll ever be attracted to you again. Reclaim your testicles, stop talking to her, and find a new girl.
 
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