when they break it off and leave it somewhat open ended

[Mystic]

So ive been seeing this girl for 2 and a half months, she was gorgeous but we had nothing in common and not much to say. She decides to break it off. We message each other back and forth but it wasnt looking good for me in regards to getting her back.

I asked her if i could see her again and she replied with "i dont think it's a good idea. maybe sometime in the future not sure yet." For now I know its best to move on and find someone else. My question is this, will she actually ever come back sometime in the future say 6 months to a year from now or is she gone for good?

 

[Leah]

She's using you as a confidence boost, either that or she's not sure how she feels but it isn't promising. Lose her.

 

[Mystic]

gotcha, the whole confidence boost for her was what i think the whole premise of our relationship was. im a sophmore in college shes a high school senior probaly wanted to feel cool or something. i guess its time to move on, shucks.

 

[Leah]

When you move on it may raise her interest levels lol don't be shocked at a call asking you back. Be strong

 

[Mystic]

i changed my myspace from single to in a relationship even after she defriended me, and sure enough the next day i got a IM from some random screenname, it was her obviously probing me asking questions about my "girlfriend" lol, i took it as an indicator of interest but right now it doesnt seem like she wants me at all. I even had a good friend of mine who she didnt know leave me a comment saying I love you so much haha but to no avail in the end.

Ugh silly high school girls :\

 

[Last Man Standing]

dfe is seeing another dude!!!!!!

 

[mrRuckus]

I asked her if i could see her again and she replied with "i dont think it's a good idea. maybe sometime in the future not sure yet." For now I know its best to move on and find someone else. My question is this, will she actually ever come back sometime in the future say 6 months to a year from now or is she gone for good?

You handed her your balls by asking that. I doubt she'll ever be attracted to you again. Reclaim your testicles, stop talking to her, and find a new girl.