When they are too good? Discussion

[LegendBoy]

Now what do you do when you honestly think a girl is too hot for you...

I mean I am not saying how to get them, but I am more so wondering what should be done so in the future you won't feel they are too good. I was thinking along the lines of self improvement. So you are just as good looking..

I mean I believe I am good looking, but like you's know sometimes you's will get some ****ing hot chicks that your like damn. I want to move towards a situation where no girl is too good for me..

I just made university, at a pretty good uni in Australia.. On November 7 I am free until like march... Meaning I can improve in every mother****ing way possible... I also turn 18 in a week... 18= able to go clubs in oz.

I am aiming for excellence that I truely believe I am better then every girl I see. How can that be achieved?


Example today this girl I saw at the library I reckon is hottest chick I seen this year, on her way out of the library she waved to me saying bye, I never talked to her before, so I presumed she was joking so I just looked at her.. Why am I like that... Two mins later I saw this girl that is okay looking and I just talked with full confidence on the way out of the library... WHY AM I LIKE THIS

 

[fertileTurtle]

First off, looks aren't everything. A girl can't be better than you just because in your eyes she's hot. :nono:

 

[Nighthawk]

Try this.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=946079#post946079

You probably need to get a couple of uber-hotties under your belt before you get really confident.

 

[Trapper]

its all about confidence and experience.. in fact, they are all the same in mind...looks does not really matter.. she would be the miss universe i would not care..you should not...and you have plenty of time to get over this fear.. just stick to this form and start to approach hot girls...good luck

 

[Panda 2000]

Looks are just one aspect. But by choosing the right actions and having the right attitude and behaviour you directly influence her subconsciousness to think of you as a step superior, and the subconscious is what plays the larger role in interpersonal relations.

 

[LegendBoy]

I disagree with the mindset.... I believe every man can achieve a level where they don't give a care about rejection. My belief is that by getting rejected won't get rid of that.

At the moment I just go after 6/7/7.5, because all the chicks that are higher I see them constantly around and they will end up at uni. So I am waiting until I become the ideal me so the chances of me being blown off are very small. So there will be no what ifs? when the time comes.

Who else thinks self improvement very close to perfection means feeling that you are REALLY THE PRIZE in relation to the hot babes. I mean you can tell yourself all day your the prize but sometimes you know you aren't compared to other chickies.

So shouldn't we all be aiming to be the prize?