"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When they are too good? Discussion

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Now what do you do when you honestly think a girl is too hot for you...

I mean I am not saying how to get them, but I am more so wondering what should be done so in the future you won't feel they are too good. I was thinking along the lines of self improvement. So you are just as good looking..

I mean I believe I am good looking, but like you's know sometimes you's will get some ****ing hot chicks that your like damn. I want to move towards a situation where no girl is too good for me..

I just made university, at a pretty good uni in Australia.. On November 7 I am free until like march... Meaning I can improve in every mother****ing way possible... I also turn 18 in a week... 18= able to go clubs in oz.

I am aiming for excellence that I truely believe I am better then every girl I see. How can that be achieved?


Example today this girl I saw at the library I reckon is hottest chick I seen this year, on her way out of the library she waved to me saying bye, I never talked to her before, so I presumed she was joking so I just looked at her.. Why am I like that... Two mins later I saw this girl that is okay looking and I just talked with full confidence on the way out of the library... WHY AM I LIKE THIS
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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fertileTurtle

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First off, looks aren't everything. A girl can't be better than you just because in your eyes she's hot. :nono:
 
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its all about confidence and experience.. in fact, they are all the same in mind...looks does not really matter.. she would be the miss universe i would not care..you should not...and you have plenty of time to get over this fear.. just stick to this form and start to approach hot girls...good luck
 
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Looks are just one aspect. But by choosing the right actions and having the right attitude and behaviour you directly influence her subconsciousness to think of you as a step superior, and the subconscious is what plays the larger role in interpersonal relations.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I disagree with the mindset.... I believe every man can achieve a level where they don't give a care about rejection. My belief is that by getting rejected won't get rid of that.

At the moment I just go after 6/7/7.5, because all the chicks that are higher I see them constantly around and they will end up at uni. So I am waiting until I become the ideal me so the chances of me being blown off are very small. So there will be no what ifs? when the time comes.

Who else thinks self improvement very close to perfection means feeling that you are REALLY THE PRIZE in relation to the hot babes. I mean you can tell yourself all day your the prize but sometimes you know you aren't compared to other chickies.

So shouldn't we all be aiming to be the prize?
 
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