jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
May this be helpful to other men who are here now and those who will come later.
During the initial stages of "monkey-branching," I observed how women’s reactions to specific traits of your personality would shift.
For instance, suppose she did you a favor: normally, you might make a playful remark (which would make her laugh) and then immediately follow up with a sincere "thank you." However, during the devaluation phase, instead of laughing, she would start attacking you.
This is just a small example of how the woman you thought was your most loyal and wonderful girlfriend controls and alters her reactions based on her own agenda, rather than simply laughing because you genuinely made her laugh.
In the stories of those two people that I don't want to mention their name, there were certain things that annoyed their partners but were usually laughed off.
For example, the first, let's call him John, was a bit forgetful, always leaving behind his wallet, umbrella, or other items, and his girlfriend would always tell him how cute and absent-minded he was.
The other person, let's call it Mike, on the other hand, could be a bit of a jerk when his girlfriend cooked; instead of just thanking her, he’d give her a hard time with comments like, "Oh, you put way too much salt in this... tell the truth, you were trying to kill me slowly, right?",said jokingly, before eventually thanking her sincerely.
Or, another thing about MIke it's when she was asking him something, and he would explode with raising his voice, but telling a joke about her, instead of replying to her. She had always laugh to that.
That said, during the "monkey-branching" episodes, both women got absolutely furious over these same small quirks and flaws, telling the men they were acting like children or in Mike scenario, instead of laughing, she would now tell him that those outburst were toxic and that was an immature behaviuor.
Ultimately, my John girlfriend failed in her attempt to monkey-branch, whereas Mike's one cheated, and he left her. I’ve watched John girlfriend change from one way of being to another, and then revert to the way she was before.
And it’s truly impossible to tell whether she’s being genuine and sincere, or if she’s just putting on an act.
It’s honestly impossible to know.
P.S. I spoke to my John about the possibility that respect for his relationship might have been lost, but he told me that everything has gone back to how it was, and that things are going great now. He still don't know if she cheated on him, but he says how she is now reacting as she was before
During the initial stages of "monkey-branching," I observed how women’s reactions to specific traits of your personality would shift.
For instance, suppose she did you a favor: normally, you might make a playful remark (which would make her laugh) and then immediately follow up with a sincere "thank you." However, during the devaluation phase, instead of laughing, she would start attacking you.
This is just a small example of how the woman you thought was your most loyal and wonderful girlfriend controls and alters her reactions based on her own agenda, rather than simply laughing because you genuinely made her laugh.
In the stories of those two people that I don't want to mention their name, there were certain things that annoyed their partners but were usually laughed off.
For example, the first, let's call him John, was a bit forgetful, always leaving behind his wallet, umbrella, or other items, and his girlfriend would always tell him how cute and absent-minded he was.
The other person, let's call it Mike, on the other hand, could be a bit of a jerk when his girlfriend cooked; instead of just thanking her, he’d give her a hard time with comments like, "Oh, you put way too much salt in this... tell the truth, you were trying to kill me slowly, right?",said jokingly, before eventually thanking her sincerely.
Or, another thing about MIke it's when she was asking him something, and he would explode with raising his voice, but telling a joke about her, instead of replying to her. She had always laugh to that.
That said, during the "monkey-branching" episodes, both women got absolutely furious over these same small quirks and flaws, telling the men they were acting like children or in Mike scenario, instead of laughing, she would now tell him that those outburst were toxic and that was an immature behaviuor.
Ultimately, my John girlfriend failed in her attempt to monkey-branch, whereas Mike's one cheated, and he left her. I’ve watched John girlfriend change from one way of being to another, and then revert to the way she was before.
And it’s truly impossible to tell whether she’s being genuine and sincere, or if she’s just putting on an act.
It’s honestly impossible to know.
P.S. I spoke to my John about the possibility that respect for his relationship might have been lost, but he told me that everything has gone back to how it was, and that things are going great now. He still don't know if she cheated on him, but he says how she is now reacting as she was before
