"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When the girl calls first

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I keep reading how no hot babe is going to initiate the phone calls early in the game. Well, this has happened to me once or twice and both times the girl wanted to bang.

Well, I met another girl and we exchanged phone numbers. And lo and behold she called me first the day after I gave her my #.

We've been talking for a couple days now. Hopefully I can get this one. The girls never call first unless they are super horny and ready to get down to business, right?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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the girl calling first is an excellent sign IF she has a life and style

IF she has no life / friends / style - its a bad sign because it just shows she's bored and got nothing better to do.

generally though, if your into the girl - great sign.
 
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PectoralisMajor said:
the girl calling first is an excellent sign IF she has a life and style

IF she has no life / friends / style - its a bad sign because it just shows she's bored and got nothing better to do.

generally though, if your into the girl - great sign.
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That's true, we'll see what happens.
 
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you did good.

now stop worrying about whether its a good sign, and get down to business!
 
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