"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I keep reading how no hot babe is going to initiate the phone calls early in the game. Well, this has happened to me once or twice and both times the girl wanted to bang.

Well, I met another girl and we exchanged phone numbers. And lo and behold she called me first the day after I gave her my #.

We've been talking for a couple days now. Hopefully I can get this one. The girls never call first unless they are super horny and ready to get down to business, right?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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the girl calling first is an excellent sign IF she has a life and style

IF she has no life / friends / style - its a bad sign because it just shows she's bored and got nothing better to do.

generally though, if your into the girl - great sign.
 
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PectoralisMajor said:
the girl calling first is an excellent sign IF she has a life and style

IF she has no life / friends / style - its a bad sign because it just shows she's bored and got nothing better to do.

generally though, if your into the girl - great sign.
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That's true, we'll see what happens.
 
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you did good.

now stop worrying about whether its a good sign, and get down to business!
 
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