When the girl asks you to be more serious

[Ricky]

The first couple of dates, you keep it light and playful. You have a great time. You get her talking, she tells you alot about herself.

You on the other hand play it cool. Have fun, don't say alot about yourself.

Then after a few dates she asks you to tell more about yourself. She barely knows you.

This is a sign of her interest in you.

But, wait, she is making a big deal about it now. She says all you do is joke, you aren't serious enough.

Has this ever happened to you?

 

[penkitten]

ricky...
you know this means she wants to settle down fast ...

 

[Kaine]

Depends on the context, it doesn't mean she wants your children..

Does she mean that you aren't serious because you're a jokester?
Are you always been the funny guy? Or is she referring to you been closed. What you don't want to come off is a 24/7 comedian. Thats great and fun but gets pretty tiring and fustrating for a girl who is interested in you. IF that is the problem, throw in a few philisophical discussions, some beliefs you share, heroes you admire etc

Throw in some unpredictably serious conversation sometimes so she doesn't think you are some goofy Jim Carrey caricature.

Do tell her a little bit about yourself, the good stuff, how you help orphans at the soup kitchen, took down some robbers with your kungfu grip etc when she prompts you or given the appropriate situation.

I know I have been told that I am quite guarded, and my GF has even called me on my ability to misdirect questions I don't want to answer. She has also told me that I can be quite silly and sometimes I look so serious.

One thing you should keep to yourself initially is your FEELINGS about HER.

 

[Ricky]

Guys I was a joking ******* with her, so that's 90% of the problem.

However Pen you are right. I forgot how she mentioned on the first date something about how she's looking for a husband.

Damn these women in their late 20's. Gotta love them though.

 

[Cremasta]

Whenever I got the complaint that I'm not serious enough, I just tell them that I am serious when I need to be serious, like when I'm at work and someone is paying me to be serious. In my own time I am going to be the dikhead I always strive to be.

You're right about the late 20's chicks though... they go off like a frog in a sock!

 

[penkitten]

Originally posted by Ricky
Guys I was a joking ******* with her, so that's 90% of the problem.

However Pen you are right. I forgot how she mentioned on the first date something about how she's looking for a husband.

Damn these women in their late 20's. Gotta love them though.

ah! why did you just damn me? what did i ever do , but lub yew?
hehehehe

 

[Slash]

Second Phase

Youre done with the attraction part, now she wants rapport.. She wants reasons to f*ck you, if you havnt....

Tone down the jokes.. dont loose it but just get 2 know each other.. its normal.... (I rapport Juggler Style)

 

[Ricky]

i will have to check out jugglers stuff again.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Originally posted by Ricky
Guys I was a joking ******* with her, so that's 90% of the prolem.

However Pen you are right. I forgot how she mentioned on the first date something about how she's looking for a husband.

Damn these women in their late 20's. Gotta love them though.

Desperate hos are now looking for desperate men - FLEE!!!!!!! Never love a hor!!!!!!