"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When that "special" girl just doesn't...

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I'm feeling a little depressed right now. I've been greatly improving my "macking" skills, partly in thanks to the tips on this board. To girls I've never seen before, I can flirt with them and get them to like me pretty easily. The thing is, though, unless I see this girl who LEGITIMATELY want to go out with (hb 8 or above), I don't want to ask them out. Also, there's this girl at my school who I've had a crush on for a few months now...before, I think you could call it "one-itis." Now that I've brushed up on my skills, though, and I'm not afraid to mack on other girls, I think of her now as just "special." I don't know if that makes sense, or if that should happen to a "DJ." I just know that no matter what I do, I feel a strong attraction for this girl. She's not exactly HOT but she's cute and smart and all that good stuff.

But...she thinks of me as a "friend." When asked (not by me) if she could see herself going out with me, she said "I don't know....maybe...." When asked if I was cute, she said, "I guess....."

It should also be mentioned that she used to have a crush on me (last year) but I wasn't in to her. Now I think she's something really special. It hurts that no matter what I do, I can't get out of that friend zone....I'm attracted to other girls but she's really at the TOP of my list.

I'm sorry if I'm an AFC but that's just the way I'm feeling. My question is, where do I go from here?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by i am me
But...she thinks of me as a "friend." When asked (not by me) if she could see herself going out with me, she said "I don't know....maybe...." When asked if I was cute, she said, "I guess....."
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am I the only one who thinks this is ******** for "I like him a lot...but I'm not going to just tell that to everybody because he only thinks of me as a friend."

Ask her out.
 
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She has a boyfriend. I know that's a big part so sorry I left it out
 
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Originally posted by i am me
She has a boyfriend. I know that's a big part so sorry I left it out
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oopps. lol

that changes alot

yes, she likes you. yes, she would go out with you. but theres this little issue of the 6'1 280 lb bag of muscle she's undoubtably dating ;)

it mostly depends on how much she likes her boyfriend. if she really does like him, your chances are slim. if she likes him a little less then alot, then just play her up and she'll get closer. if she ever says anything implying that she likes you, just point out that her boyfriend is obviously getting in the way of her uncontrollable love for you ;)

good luck
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Guys, guys, guys..


Where has everyone's morals gone? Don't mess with the girl if she has a boyfriend. I mean geez, you wouldn't want some chump coming along calling your girlfriend every time of the day, trying to steal her from you now would you? I mean it's different if she's is about to or already has broken up with the guy, but if she's in a serious relationship with someone, don't mess with it. Let it be. There are TONS and I mean TONS of other available girls out there. Try your luck elsewhere. The only reason you're having these feelings right now is because you regret not asking her out when you had the chance; When she was actually into you.
 
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