"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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some of them, they would be touching their face, their hair.. or some kind of attempt to touch whatever there is to touch while talking to me.

I know for a fact it doesn't always mean the "LIKE ME" as in want to hook up. But does this mean they feel comfortable talking to me or they are feeling insecure about their looks? I've already googled it but, I want to hear your personal experiences.

Thanks!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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unless shes touching u, i wouldnt take anything to seriously
 
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Ratisson said:
unless shes touching u, i wouldnt take anything to seriously
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that is a promised way to defeat "dreams" and those are quite enemies i think..do not dream of anything if you don't want to be sad..
 
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Not sure about that but this one lady I come across everytime I scan the store she will be like a deer in headlights looking at me when I am there. Not sure what it means but shes fine but she tends to disappear everytime I want to approach and find out whats up?

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Read This And Learn.. Make Her More Uncomfterble

DJnoob said:
some of them, they would be touching their face, their hair.. or some kind of attempt to touch whatever there is to touch while talking to me.
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Listen, she may be doing it cause 1)She likes you 2)She is comfertable (NOT LIKELYE) in fact 3) she IS NOT COMFTERBLE (more likely) this is in a good way, i.e. she is interested but doesnt quet know how to carry her self 4)she is insecure etc....

DOESNT FCKING matter man... What you have to do, is TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THE SITUATION... as soon as you see that level of uncomfterbility or insecuirty, pull the MOVES.. i.e. reach over to her cheek and pretend like your wipping something off and say"ohh you had something there, but I got it off" I LOVE doing that... it SHOCKS them, and then brings them to a comfort zone, cause youre "helping" out and "touching" at same time... you can do anything, like adjusting her earing, going for the lips "i.e. something in the corner of her mouth"

CONCLUSION.. DO ANYTHING YOU CAN, TO MAKE HER MORE UNCOMFTERBLE i.e. taking control of the situation.. think about it, daddys little girl can relax in front of her dad cause DAD got the situation controlled... you in essence need to take that role ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DonJuanByNature said:
Listen, she may be doing it cause 1)She likes you 2)She is comfertable (NOT LIKELYE) in fact 3) she IS NOT COMFTERBLE (more likely) this is in a good way, i.e. she is interested but doesnt quet know how to carry her self 4)she is insecure etc....

DOESNT FCKING matter man... What you have to do, is TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THE SITUATION... as soon as you see that level of uncomfterbility or insecuirty, pull the MOVES.. i.e. reach over to her cheek and pretend like your wipping something off and say"ohh you had something there, but I got it off" I LOVE doing that... it SHOCKS them, and then brings them to a comfort zone, cause youre "helping" out and "touching" at same time... you can do anything, like adjusting her earing, going for the lips "i.e. something in the corner of her mouth"

CONCLUSION.. DO ANYTHING YOU CAN, TO MAKE HER MORE UNCOMFTERBLE i.e. taking control of the situation.. think about it, daddys little girl can relax in front of her dad cause DAD got the situation controlled... you in essence need to take that role ;)
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Good advice and smooth.

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DonJuanByNature said:
Listen, she may be doing it cause 1)She likes you 2)She is comfertable (NOT LIKELYE) in fact 3) she IS NOT COMFTERBLE (more likely) this is in a good way, i.e. she is interested but doesnt quet know how to carry her self 4)she is insecure etc....

DOESNT FCKING matter man... What you have to do, is TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THE SITUATION... as soon as you see that level of uncomfterbility or insecuirty, pull the MOVES.. i.e. reach over to her cheek and pretend like your wipping something off and say"ohh you had something there, but I got it off" I LOVE doing that... it SHOCKS them, and then brings them to a comfort zone, cause youre "helping" out and "touching" at same time... you can do anything, like adjusting her earing, going for the lips "i.e. something in the corner of her mouth"

CONCLUSION.. DO ANYTHING YOU CAN, TO MAKE HER MORE UNCOMFTERBLE i.e. taking control of the situation.. think about it, daddys little girl can relax in front of her dad cause DAD got the situation controlled... you in essence need to take that role ;)
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makes sense. Anyway, it was just some chick at work. Yeah, she's very very cute like a hot burnette 8.5. Even the other alpha males at work are INLOVE with this chick.

A summary of what really happened:
I was working in my department doing some stuff and I see her walking by. So I greeted by saying:

djnoob - "Hey looser"
HB 8.5 - "hey djnoob! man, this sucks.. i have to do this and this.. bla bla bla

I just want to be her friend really and user her for social proof. She was talking to me for like 2 minutes at work and she did a half stretch by raising her hands in mid air which exposed her arm pits..

So I negged her by giving her the "smelly facial expression" while waving my hand infront my face left to right with a smile on my face of course..

And she was like "oh shutup"
djnoob - "hey watcha been doing this summer?"
hb - "not much. But I am going to Santa Fe tomorrow!"
djnoob - "cool. Have you been to Fair?"
hb - "We were planning on going to.. but we ended up not going"
djnoob -"well, check this out. Next week, there will be a concert there. Smash mouth will be there, led zeppelin, etc etc."
hb - "oh wow, thats so cool"
djnoob -"if you are not doing anything next wednesday me and my friends are going to go see it, it would be cool if you can come along, if not, thats cool too"
hb - "ok"
djnoonb - "do you still have the same cell phone number" (i've asked her for it back in january before she disappeared for 5 months but I haven't called her since then... cuz like i said, Im not trying to hook up wid her or anything and due to the fact she has a BF)
hb - "yeah, i don think ive changed it"
djnob - "ok then ill call you and figure things out"
hb - "ok"
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So, i thinking of calling her maybe later but... Is there anything else I can say to get my message across even further that I just want to be friends with her? Maybe lie to her that my "stripper girl friend" is coming along
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Im thinking of maybe not calling her to ask her plans for wednesday. Instead, I am just going to meet her at work in person and say something like this:

djnoob - "hey, i didn't call you cause think i threw your number away or lost it or something... so, anyways, you gona tag along with us on wednesday or what?"
 
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From a psychological standpoint, touching of the face is bad, usually means boredom or uneasyness. The higher they touch their face, the worse. Its subconscous. Rubbing the chin or lips is mild disinterest or boredom. Nose, cheeks and ears are moderate, and forehead and temple is the worst.

Her touching her hair is good, flipping it back or floofing it is a subconscious effort for her to get noticed.

As a guy, be aware of your non-verbal signals. Don't rub your nose, chin, eyes or forehead when talking. Make an effort to not subconsiously do this.

Read her signals, if you're getting the face touch, go for damage control to make her at ease. If you get the hair flip or touch, then work that as a positive sign.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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rocky_mtn said:
From a psychological standpoint, touching of the face is bad, usually means boredom or uneasyness. The higher they touch their face, the worse. Its subconscous. Rubbing the chin or lips is mild disinterest or boredom. Nose, cheeks and ears are moderate, and forehead and temple is the worst.

Her touching her hair is good, flipping it back or floofing it is a subconscious effort for her to get noticed.

As a guy, be aware of your non-verbal signals. Don't rub your nose, chin, eyes or forehead when talking. Make an effort to not subconsiously do this.

Read her signals, if you're getting the face touch, go for damage control to make her at ease. If you get the hair flip or touch, then work that as a positive sign.
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Yeah, she had a hat on. I was positivle sure she was going to run her fingers through her hair but she had a hat on. I was cracking up inside when I noticed that. It looked like as if she was going to use both her hands to stroke her hair from from to back.

She didnt touch her face or any of that.

Well, thanks for sharing your thoughts guys.
 
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