"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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when someone disrespects you

randalll

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how do you react?

EXAMPLE: one of my flatmate's broke an egg into one of my pans, i'm in a flat with 9 other guys, no idea which one it is yet but it could have been any of about 4 of them i think

would you use their pans untill one of them washes yours? say something to one of them? or just wash the pan and forget about it? (i'd lose my own respect if i did that)

it seems like a no-win situation really, because if i react, people will say i cant take a joke, and should get over it. if i dont react, they'll think they can get away with more next time.

that was just an example, but is there a 'perfect' way to handle a situation like this?

post your opinions and similar stories and how you dealt with them.

thanks in advance

randall
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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take the joke - even laugh

but make sure 1- you give as good as you get and 2- you dont become the usual easy target.

If its evenly spread (these pranks) between ur mates then no harm
 

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take the joke - even laugh

but make sure 1- you give as good as you get and 2- you dont become the usual easy target.

If its evenly spread (these pranks) between ur mates then no harm


just gone and put chili powder in his suger :D

practical jokes do happen to me a lot more than anyone else though. if they were even i wouldn't have made this thread.

also, i think reacting like i've just done might backfire because i've got a lot more food and cutlery and pans than he has, all he had was sugar and chili!
 
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