"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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when someone disrespects you

randalll

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how do you react?

EXAMPLE: one of my flatmate's broke an egg into one of my pans, i'm in a flat with 9 other guys, no idea which one it is yet but it could have been any of about 4 of them i think

would you use their pans untill one of them washes yours? say something to one of them? or just wash the pan and forget about it? (i'd lose my own respect if i did that)

it seems like a no-win situation really, because if i react, people will say i cant take a joke, and should get over it. if i dont react, they'll think they can get away with more next time.

that was just an example, but is there a 'perfect' way to handle a situation like this?

post your opinions and similar stories and how you dealt with them.

thanks in advance

randall
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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take the joke - even laugh

but make sure 1- you give as good as you get and 2- you dont become the usual easy target.

If its evenly spread (these pranks) between ur mates then no harm
 

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take the joke - even laugh

but make sure 1- you give as good as you get and 2- you dont become the usual easy target.

If its evenly spread (these pranks) between ur mates then no harm


just gone and put chili powder in his suger :D

practical jokes do happen to me a lot more than anyone else though. if they were even i wouldn't have made this thread.

also, i think reacting like i've just done might backfire because i've got a lot more food and cutlery and pans than he has, all he had was sugar and chili!
 
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