"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When should you flake on a women?

thunder_god

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If a girl is playing games with you or you suspect that she is, would you purposely flake on a date if she asks you out? Would this backfire on you if she really wanted to be going out with you?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tiguere

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Spin plates. Playing games = low interest maybe none in most cases.
 

The LadyKiller

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I hate flaking on women. Not because they're especially high value, but I try to stick to commitments, so it's more a "me" thing. Anyway, I actually just "flaked" on a HB this week.

I asker her out, she mentions how there's competition. I debated going on the date anyway, but in the end it felt uncomfortable and I wound up having other commitments anyway.

When it comes to flaking, if you feel disrespected or used - basically, when she has low IL - explaining that you have other things to do might be best.
 

smurfs

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I agree, simply spin plates - flaking is just plain rude
 

thunder_god

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What if she flaked on your before by trying to change a date to a group social event?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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VladPatton

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thunder_god said:
What if she flaked on your before by trying to change a date to a group social event?

If she did either one of these, or worse, both, make no mistake, have no doubt, this girl thinks you're dogshıt. Drop her immediately and look for something better, you will get nowhere if you continue.

Good luck.
 
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