"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When she's "too busy" to talk

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Hi, I'm needing some advice as to what to do in the case when a girl tells you she has been to busy to talk. I know 99% of the time its a bunch of BS, because if she likes you she would make time for you, and I know this girl I've been talking to is not part of that 1%. But is there something you can do, or something you can say the next time she does talk to you?
Is this something that can be fixed by giving her the gift of missing me or should I just cut off all connections?
Thanx.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anything with the word "busy" with anyone but a woman you've fvcked translates to "I'm not interested in you." Next time a girl does this, just say, "that's too bad," and hang up and forget about her.
 
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You my friend have been flaked...plan and simple you. AFter attracting a girl you should gain some rapport before going for number it usually reduces the chances of flaking. I'll prob make a post about it in the future.
 
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Originally posted by Shiftkey
Anything with the word "busy" with anyone but a woman you've fvcked translates to "I'm not interested in you." Next time a girl does this, just say, "that's too bad," and hang up and forget about her.
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Yep, he nailed it.
 
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Oh ****, I hope the girl I like isn't trying to blow me off. Then again, SHE GAVE ME her number, I didn't have to ask for it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Thanks for the advice guys. We talked online yesterday and she asked me when am I going to write back to her email, I told her I won't because she might be too busy to read it. She responded saying she always has time to read my emails (but apparently not enough time to call back), and it made her kinda mad, so I told her ok if you're going to be mad we might as well not talk right now bye, but she asked me to stay, and we talked for a little while and then I left. I think our relationship is pretty much over, but I dont give a sh1t now.
 
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You care because of your stupid ass comments to her. "Whan whan whan. You might be too busy."

Manese = You hurt me deeply. I'm a little *****. Don't dump me. WHAN WHAN WHAN. I'm a faggot.
 
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Originally posted by Shiftkey
Anything with the word "busy" with anyone but a woman you've fvcked translates to "I'm not interested in you." Next time a girl does this, just say, "that's too bad," and hang up and forget about her.
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BINGO!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't be so fast to "next" her.

It could be a test.

Tell her you'll try calling her another time, when hopefully, she isn't so busy.

Then wait about a month or so before calling again.

Not only will you pass her stupid little test, but you're also showing that you're not the kind of guy who is going to be begging her for a date, that you're willing to walk away, but that you're also persistent enough to go after what you want.

Once you do this little "takeaway" don't be surprised if she jumps on the 2nd chance.
 
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