Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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When she's "too busy" to talk

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Hi, I'm needing some advice as to what to do in the case when a girl tells you she has been to busy to talk. I know 99% of the time its a bunch of BS, because if she likes you she would make time for you, and I know this girl I've been talking to is not part of that 1%. But is there something you can do, or something you can say the next time she does talk to you?
Is this something that can be fixed by giving her the gift of missing me or should I just cut off all connections?
Thanx.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Anything with the word "busy" with anyone but a woman you've fvcked translates to "I'm not interested in you." Next time a girl does this, just say, "that's too bad," and hang up and forget about her.
 
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You my friend have been flaked...plan and simple you. AFter attracting a girl you should gain some rapport before going for number it usually reduces the chances of flaking. I'll prob make a post about it in the future.
 
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Originally posted by Shiftkey
Anything with the word "busy" with anyone but a woman you've fvcked translates to "I'm not interested in you." Next time a girl does this, just say, "that's too bad," and hang up and forget about her.
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Yep, he nailed it.
 
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Oh ****, I hope the girl I like isn't trying to blow me off. Then again, SHE GAVE ME her number, I didn't have to ask for it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thanks for the advice guys. We talked online yesterday and she asked me when am I going to write back to her email, I told her I won't because she might be too busy to read it. She responded saying she always has time to read my emails (but apparently not enough time to call back), and it made her kinda mad, so I told her ok if you're going to be mad we might as well not talk right now bye, but she asked me to stay, and we talked for a little while and then I left. I think our relationship is pretty much over, but I dont give a sh1t now.
 
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You care because of your stupid ass comments to her. "Whan whan whan. You might be too busy."

Manese = You hurt me deeply. I'm a little *****. Don't dump me. WHAN WHAN WHAN. I'm a faggot.
 
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Originally posted by Shiftkey
Anything with the word "busy" with anyone but a woman you've fvcked translates to "I'm not interested in you." Next time a girl does this, just say, "that's too bad," and hang up and forget about her.
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BINGO!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't be so fast to "next" her.

It could be a test.

Tell her you'll try calling her another time, when hopefully, she isn't so busy.

Then wait about a month or so before calling again.

Not only will you pass her stupid little test, but you're also showing that you're not the kind of guy who is going to be begging her for a date, that you're willing to walk away, but that you're also persistent enough to go after what you want.

Once you do this little "takeaway" don't be surprised if she jumps on the 2nd chance.
 
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