"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When she's clingy but has a boyfriend...

Glo Boy

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I met this girl in my history class Wednesday. I got her to come to my place to study for a test we had. She couldn't stay long because it was in between her class, but she kept expressing that she wish she could stay longer. I'm not sure if that cause we talked more than studied, but she text later that night about some study stuff and if I noticed her before. This lasted on and off for about 3 hours till I fell a sleep, after she said Goodnight. Next day after my test she's texting me immediately after about how the test was, wanting coming to study(for another class we happen to have together) at my place again, and setting up a day for us to go eat out sometime. I was cool with this, since shes pretty attractive, and I like to see where I can take this.I set up date for Friday afternoon, and she agreed. Although I cancelled the next because she wanted to move time of it on me. I'm still eating with her on Monday and studying at my crib. Unfortunately, in spite of all this she did mention her boyfriend 2x when talking to her in person.

Is this a flop, or does she seem down?

-I mean if she's wiling to throw the P, I'll slang the D.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lozboss

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You need to organize a date- not be a friend.

Either be a friend or a lover- decide, you can't do both.

If she's got a BF then I'd suggest slacking her off
 

El Payaso

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Slimy woman. Her telling you she has a boyfriend is just plausible deniability so if anything happens when you two are alone, she can rationalize it in her mind as YOU being the one who made her do it. When caught, some crazy b!tches will even go as far as to say you raped them.

If she asks to hang out, tell her point blank no. Say that you are hanging out with Chloe (made up name). The funny part is, that will nuke her hamster from orbit and drive her even crazier for you. Lmao.
 

RangerMIke

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All women always keep an eye out for the next best thing, that is all that is happening. Do not pursue her...

Ask her out... if she brings up the BF just tell her if she's available to let you know... then move on.

If she ever contacts you again assume that her situation has changed and try to make a date... if she says no then tell her to keep in touch but you have to run... too busy.

The important thing to remember is that you should not put your life on hold... go out with other women.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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om1xr

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All women always keep an eye out for the next best thing, that is all that is happening. Do not pursue her...

Ask her out... if she brings up the BF just tell her if she's available to let you know... then move on.

If she ever contacts you again assume that her situation has changed and try to make a date... if she says no then tell her to keep in touch but you have to run... too busy.

The important thing to remember is that you should not put your life on hold... go out with other women.
This.

I can add one more thing that works if you want to add her to your banged list,

Ignore her and forget that she exist and if she is really think you are worth banging she will make it happen within weeks or even months. and if it didn't contact you then you don't know if she exist or not anyway
 
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