"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When she's clingy but has a boyfriend...

Glo Boy

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I met this girl in my history class Wednesday. I got her to come to my place to study for a test we had. She couldn't stay long because it was in between her class, but she kept expressing that she wish she could stay longer. I'm not sure if that cause we talked more than studied, but she text later that night about some study stuff and if I noticed her before. This lasted on and off for about 3 hours till I fell a sleep, after she said Goodnight. Next day after my test she's texting me immediately after about how the test was, wanting coming to study(for another class we happen to have together) at my place again, and setting up a day for us to go eat out sometime. I was cool with this, since shes pretty attractive, and I like to see where I can take this.I set up date for Friday afternoon, and she agreed. Although I cancelled the next because she wanted to move time of it on me. I'm still eating with her on Monday and studying at my crib. Unfortunately, in spite of all this she did mention her boyfriend 2x when talking to her in person.

Is this a flop, or does she seem down?

-I mean if she's wiling to throw the P, I'll slang the D.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lozboss

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You need to organize a date- not be a friend.

Either be a friend or a lover- decide, you can't do both.

If she's got a BF then I'd suggest slacking her off
 

El Payaso

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Slimy woman. Her telling you she has a boyfriend is just plausible deniability so if anything happens when you two are alone, she can rationalize it in her mind as YOU being the one who made her do it. When caught, some crazy b!tches will even go as far as to say you raped them.

If she asks to hang out, tell her point blank no. Say that you are hanging out with Chloe (made up name). The funny part is, that will nuke her hamster from orbit and drive her even crazier for you. Lmao.
 

RangerMIke

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All women always keep an eye out for the next best thing, that is all that is happening. Do not pursue her...

Ask her out... if she brings up the BF just tell her if she's available to let you know... then move on.

If she ever contacts you again assume that her situation has changed and try to make a date... if she says no then tell her to keep in touch but you have to run... too busy.

The important thing to remember is that you should not put your life on hold... go out with other women.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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om1xr

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All women always keep an eye out for the next best thing, that is all that is happening. Do not pursue her...

Ask her out... if she brings up the BF just tell her if she's available to let you know... then move on.

If she ever contacts you again assume that her situation has changed and try to make a date... if she says no then tell her to keep in touch but you have to run... too busy.

The important thing to remember is that you should not put your life on hold... go out with other women.
This.

I can add one more thing that works if you want to add her to your banged list,

Ignore her and forget that she exist and if she is really think you are worth banging she will make it happen within weeks or even months. and if it didn't contact you then you don't know if she exist or not anyway
 
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