"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When She Wants To Know Your Age

izza

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OP:

If a girl asks your age:

JUST TELL HER! In my experience, "being a mystery" is not only counterproductive to the interaction... it prevents you from finding out if you two can have a real, meaningful connection. I recommend expressing all the time, as often as possible.

Or even better, make her trade her age for your age.. like digit by digit or something.

If you're young, start telling her stories like busting about how you're still in the cradle. Or if you're old, tell her stories like, "I can't believe my memory started to go at age 23. Just the other day I met this girl on the bus, she told me her name, and I forgot after five seconds! I felt so embarrassed... I was staring at this necklace which had her name on it, but in really complicated cursive for two straight minutes of the conversation trying to dechipher it... she must have thought I was staring at her boobs. Which in between letters, I sort of was. She had this v-cut t-shirt (by the way I'm hardwired to think boobs are really cool)..."

Make it a true story...

Izza
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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It doesn't get much better than being in your mid 20s and looking about 16. :(
 
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