"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When She Wants To Know Your Age

izza

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OP:

If a girl asks your age:

JUST TELL HER! In my experience, "being a mystery" is not only counterproductive to the interaction... it prevents you from finding out if you two can have a real, meaningful connection. I recommend expressing all the time, as often as possible.

Or even better, make her trade her age for your age.. like digit by digit or something.

If you're young, start telling her stories like busting about how you're still in the cradle. Or if you're old, tell her stories like, "I can't believe my memory started to go at age 23. Just the other day I met this girl on the bus, she told me her name, and I forgot after five seconds! I felt so embarrassed... I was staring at this necklace which had her name on it, but in really complicated cursive for two straight minutes of the conversation trying to dechipher it... she must have thought I was staring at her boobs. Which in between letters, I sort of was. She had this v-cut t-shirt (by the way I'm hardwired to think boobs are really cool)..."

Make it a true story...

Izza
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It doesn't get much better than being in your mid 20s and looking about 16. :(
 
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