"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When she tries to change the plans at the last minute

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Hmmm... just had a similar situation to this...

my plan - meet at a pool hall around 7 by my house, hopefully end up at my house after an hour or so...
She texted today - "Hey! I really wanna see Underworld! Can you come to XXX bar? Then we can watch it? <smiley>.... pleeeeeeassssee"

Context..
-third date
-have made out, but not secks
-This place is close to her house
-made these plans on Friday

Part of me says, "have fun, I got some things to do around the house anyway"... other part of me says go to the bar and skip out on the movie... If I am being honest with myself, I don't really want to see it.

Tempted to hit up another girl and make alternative plans...

I have to get up at 4am, and I was willing to sacrifice sleep for secks... not a movie...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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