"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When she tries to change the plans at the last minute

Roober

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Hmmm... just had a similar situation to this...

my plan - meet at a pool hall around 7 by my house, hopefully end up at my house after an hour or so...
She texted today - "Hey! I really wanna see Underworld! Can you come to XXX bar? Then we can watch it? <smiley>.... pleeeeeeassssee"

Context..
-third date
-have made out, but not secks
-This place is close to her house
-made these plans on Friday

Part of me says, "have fun, I got some things to do around the house anyway"... other part of me says go to the bar and skip out on the movie... If I am being honest with myself, I don't really want to see it.

Tempted to hit up another girl and make alternative plans...

I have to get up at 4am, and I was willing to sacrifice sleep for secks... not a movie...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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