"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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when she start to read "romance" novels....?

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Hi there!
A friend of mine asked me to find a way to help.

His 6 year girlfriend really like reading. She is mostly into romance novels, the ones without sex scenes on, which tells about love, the bluepill love we all know. But 3 months ago She suddenly started to read romance novels about sex (like 50 shades, but even more perverse material). So ofc my friend asked Her why She really like those perverse material, and She stated that She really like those novels, for the "romance" present in it.

So, He was trusting her until He found out Her masturbating her really more often than usual .. and also made my friend to question himself, "why She's reading this material, and do n't ask me to satisfy those fantasies She read when We do I have sex?". He also started to nice that she's more "absent".


The suspect
He has only a suspect which is the following: 4/5 months ago, a new guy entered her workplace. This guy is not attractive at all, but he was a childhood friend of her. We are pretty sure that they haven't done anything before, or now, or even touched each other in the workplace, because there is another guy, a friend of us who works there, who has confirmed this to us. But what our friend started to notice is that She increased opportunities to see him at work, such as asking for help with trivial problems. Again, we are sure they haven't even touched...

Coming back to my friend, I really don't know what to say in order to help him in a good way.. So I would like to discuss here on the forum. My Friends it's in a good 6 years LTR, this girl it's really awesome, they have even a child of 1 year, and He's an alpha male. But even an alpha male have this problems.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jhonny9546

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Your friend should be a good lad and help her out. She's experiencing a fantasy, that's it.
Exactly why I'm asking how to help him, since He asked for advice, but I thought I could not really be helpful at this point.
What do you mean with experiencing a fantasy?
 

jhonny9546

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Sounds like some reading will be good for you.
Sounds like just right!
That book it's just eye opening on what female nature brings on the table.
Are there other books like that? non ontly on this specific subject
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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