"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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when she start to read "romance" novels....?

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Hi there!
A friend of mine asked me to find a way to help.

His 6 year girlfriend really like reading. She is mostly into romance novels, the ones without sex scenes on, which tells about love, the bluepill love we all know. But 3 months ago She suddenly started to read romance novels about sex (like 50 shades, but even more perverse material). So ofc my friend asked Her why She really like those perverse material, and She stated that She really like those novels, for the "romance" present in it.

So, He was trusting her until He found out Her masturbating her really more often than usual .. and also made my friend to question himself, "why She's reading this material, and do n't ask me to satisfy those fantasies She read when We do I have sex?". He also started to nice that she's more "absent".


The suspect
He has only a suspect which is the following: 4/5 months ago, a new guy entered her workplace. This guy is not attractive at all, but he was a childhood friend of her. We are pretty sure that they haven't done anything before, or now, or even touched each other in the workplace, because there is another guy, a friend of us who works there, who has confirmed this to us. But what our friend started to notice is that She increased opportunities to see him at work, such as asking for help with trivial problems. Again, we are sure they haven't even touched...

Coming back to my friend, I really don't know what to say in order to help him in a good way.. So I would like to discuss here on the forum. My Friends it's in a good 6 years LTR, this girl it's really awesome, they have even a child of 1 year, and He's an alpha male. But even an alpha male have this problems.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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jhonny9546

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Your friend should be a good lad and help her out. She's experiencing a fantasy, that's it.
Exactly why I'm asking how to help him, since He asked for advice, but I thought I could not really be helpful at this point.
What do you mean with experiencing a fantasy?
 

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Sounds like some reading will be good for you.
Sounds like just right!
That book it's just eye opening on what female nature brings on the table.
Are there other books like that? non ontly on this specific subject
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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