When She Says You're "Her Booty Call"

[bigneil]

Have you ever had a woman say you are her "booty call"? Where did the relationship go?

Is a booty call the equivalent of a f<ck buddy? Is it a compliment, an insult or neither? Good or bad?

Thanks in advance.

 

[SirFratserlot]

It means you are getting used with sexual benefits

 

[Sonny Knight]

Have you ever had a woman say you are her "booty call"? Where did the relationship go?

Is a booty call the equivalent of a f<ck buddy? Is it a compliment, an insult or neither? Good or bad?

Thanks in advance.

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I bet you faggots !! share one milkshake wit two straws


FUC BIG FAGGOT NEIL

 

[Sonny Knight]

It means you are getting used with sexual benefits

The only benefits lil neil is getting is welfare

 

[bigneil]

So a girl is using a man for sex?

I think being a booty call is bad if you're a woman and good if you're a man.

 

[Who Dares Win]

So a girl is using a man for sex?

I think being a booty call is bad if you're a woman and good if you're a man.

Dont listen to those dumbasses, they started a circle jerk out of nowhere instead of reasoning about what you said.

So as long as sex is involved it means you're doing fine, you're a sucker as a man when you pay with your currency (attention) and she doesnt pay back with hers (physical intimacy).

Second, if a woman openly calls you her booty call, hardly its meant as it is said, women usually use such terms in a playful manner.

Third, what you are looking for? if you have a fvck buddy which finds you attractive enough to have sex with you but date "good guys" for other reasons, you're used only if you are going after that girl with relationship plan.

The whole concept of "being used from someone" apply only to friendzoned guys trying to get laid or pumped and dumped girls trying to get commitment.

Men and women are not the same and most of all pay and get paid with different currencies, one ask sex and apy with attention while the other the opposite.

 

[bigneil]

Thanks Who Dares Win.

In the past week one girl said I could be her FB and the other said I was her BC. In my whole life no girl ever used either of those terms explicitly.

I think it's their way of saying they are attracted but unavailable for a commitment, which is ideal for me. Except I just wonder about womens declining morals. It seems they all have multiple men for different functions.

 

[r0cky]

Thanks Who Dares Win.

In the past week one girl said I could be her FB and the other said I was her BC. In my whole life no girl ever used either of those terms explicitly.

I think it's their way of saying they are attracted but unavailable for a commitment, which is ideal for me. Except I just wonder about womens declining morals. It seems they all have multiple men for different functions.

You can blame Sex & the City for this. Actually you can blame the entire media industry for society's moral decline.

 

[Zion]

So a girl is using a man for sex?

I think being a booty call is bad if you're a woman and good if you're a man.

How is it bad if you're a woman ? Sex is equally as enjoyable for both genders.


Actually ,I take that back. Physically speaking, sex is far more pleasuring for a woman.

 

[casaanova]

100% good thing. It's just her rationalizing what's going on between you two so she doesn't feel like she's the one being used. I think Roissy posted about it at his blog a while back. And the funny thing is that if you eventually wanted a relationship with her down the line, she would still most likely be open to it, way more than another guy she wasn't banging; despite her saying "you're just my booty call"

 

[casaanova]

How is it bad if you're a woman ? Sex is equally as enjoyable for both genders.

That's true, but keep in mind at the end of the day men want sex, and women want relationships/marriage. The more guys she has sex with, the harder it's gonna be for her to find a good husband. Every non-relationship f-buddy is a direct hit to her market value (whether she realizes it or not). Chalk it up to the war of the roses

 

[bigneil]

Physically speaking, sex is far more pleasuring for a woman.

While there is no way to prove this, given that men have 2000% more Testosterone than women, and that the going rate is for men to pay $500 for sex, I find it hard to believe that women find it more pleasurable.

And since women normally seek relationships while men seek sex, a sex-only arrangement is typically more beneficial to the male. But perhaps I'm dating myself with such romanticism.

 

[Deep Dish]

100% good thing. It's just her rationalizing what's going on between you two so she doesn't feel like she's the one being used. I think Roissy posted about it at his blog a while back.

Funny, I was thinking about that when reading this thread.

Feminist Fallacy #3: “I use men for sex”

Girls (mostly feminists with a battle-axe to grind) who say they just use jerks for sex and don’t want them for long-term relationships are lying out of their asses. Nine times out of ten, it’s the jerk who doesn’t want to pursue a relationship with the smitten dear who then tells herself afterward she was just using him for sex to comfort her bruised ego.

…The jerks chicks dig for sex are also loved as relationship material. The bottleneck preventing women from fulfilling their desire for LTRs with *******s is not women’s long-term preference for niceguys, but the *******s’ preference for short term flings.

So the next time you hear a woman desperately assert that she “uses men for sex”, just remind yourself you are likely conversing with a broken slut who got her heart trampled by the jerks she loves so many times she’s beginning to believe her own bullshït.

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/11/28/feminist-fallacy-3-i-use-men-for-sex/​

 

[plate's_empty]

Have you ever had a woman say you are her "booty call"? Where did the relationship go?

Is a booty call the equivalent of a f<ck buddy? Is it a compliment, an insult or neither? Good or bad?

Thanks in advance.

I had a woman recently say she was my booty call and she was cool with it. I agree with cassanova, she needed to put herself in a category. This girl just got out of non-sexual serious relationship, and she's now venturing out. My guess was, that was the way of her telling me she needs sex too and she doesn't want anything serious.

I would keep seeing her as that, a booty call. This is what she wants. Don't take her out on dates, or treating her differently. She sees you as such, it's a good thing. Don't start tying to change the dynamic or she'll go find herself another booty call....and you'll be the poor schmuck who screwed up a good thing.