Hi guys what’s all your thoughts on a girl who says she’s in love with you and tells you she loves you but you don’t love her back and she moans at you for not saying it? Should you say it to make her happy even if you don’t? Also what’s your thoughts on a girl saying ‘tickle me’ ‘can you do this’ ‘can you do that for me please’ and generally asking you to do stuff for her like little things. Thanks.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
When she says ‘I Love You’ should you say it back??
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Nope.
If you don't love someone, why would you say it back? And if you do, I say say it or don't say it. Both have their pro's and con's. In the former, you expressed yourself and maybe it leads to more openness - but she might lose a little interest since you've validated her and she might start testing. In the latter, she may chase your validation - or maybe she feels unappreciated and tests you anyways.
Pick your poison. Go with your gut.
If you don't love someone, why would you say it back? And if you do, I say say it or don't say it. Both have their pro's and con's. In the former, you expressed yourself and maybe it leads to more openness - but she might lose a little interest since you've validated her and she might start testing. In the latter, she may chase your validation - or maybe she feels unappreciated and tests you anyways.
Pick your poison. Go with your gut.
backseatjuan
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Joke it off, I love me too. Ask her to prove it to you.
I agree I have never said it back to her but she’s adamant she loves me. She asks me to do little favours like hold her shopping bag for a second whilst she does something or pick something up for her that she dropped. Is all these things a test or is it normal and ok to help her out or should I just say no don’t be so lazy what your last slave die of etc etc
backseatjuan
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These are sht tests lul. You do not hold a woman's bag even for a second. You tell her I don't hold bags, set it on the floor or whatever. If she asks to pick something up for her, it depends what. She dropped something? Tell her to ask you to say that in a french accent or arab accent or indian accent or whatever, before you pick it up.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.