Hi guys what’s all your thoughts on a girl who says she’s in love with you and tells you she loves you but you don’t love her back and she moans at you for not saying it? Should you say it to make her happy even if you don’t? Also what’s your thoughts on a girl saying ‘tickle me’ ‘can you do this’ ‘can you do that for me please’ and generally asking you to do stuff for her like little things. Thanks.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
When she says ‘I Love You’ should you say it back??
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Nope.
If you don't love someone, why would you say it back? And if you do, I say say it or don't say it. Both have their pro's and con's. In the former, you expressed yourself and maybe it leads to more openness - but she might lose a little interest since you've validated her and she might start testing. In the latter, she may chase your validation - or maybe she feels unappreciated and tests you anyways.
Pick your poison. Go with your gut.
If you don't love someone, why would you say it back? And if you do, I say say it or don't say it. Both have their pro's and con's. In the former, you expressed yourself and maybe it leads to more openness - but she might lose a little interest since you've validated her and she might start testing. In the latter, she may chase your validation - or maybe she feels unappreciated and tests you anyways.
Pick your poison. Go with your gut.
backseatjuan
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Joke it off, I love me too. Ask her to prove it to you.
I agree I have never said it back to her but she’s adamant she loves me. She asks me to do little favours like hold her shopping bag for a second whilst she does something or pick something up for her that she dropped. Is all these things a test or is it normal and ok to help her out or should I just say no don’t be so lazy what your last slave die of etc etc
backseatjuan
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These are sht tests lul. You do not hold a woman's bag even for a second. You tell her I don't hold bags, set it on the floor or whatever. If she asks to pick something up for her, it depends what. She dropped something? Tell her to ask you to say that in a french accent or arab accent or indian accent or whatever, before you pick it up.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.