"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When she plays games.

babemaster2000

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So here's the story. Last friday I went to prom with this girl (underclassmen), who was all over me. At school today, she wouldn't give me any eye contact, even when I returned her camera case! WTF?!?

I figured there were a couple reasons for this. 1. she is not interested anymore (highly unlikely) or 2. she is playing "uninterested" (this girl doesn't have too much exp. w/ guys)

What should I do? I've thought of making her jealous by flirting w/ other chicks when she's around (but I'm afraid tooverdo it b/c she's new to this) or just by playing it cool and hoping for her to approach me.

What do you guys think? Try to grab up as much info, just play it cool, or find another girl?

THANKS GUYS:D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Big Pappy

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Have you considered the idea that she didn't enjoy herself?

Or, perhaps she just wanted to go to prom, not go with you specifically.

Or, perhaps she left the camera case behind on purpose. Either way, you should have let her come get it, instead of you delivering it.

If she's new to the game - what game?

This is your life. It's not really a game, is it?

What were you expecting from her? A steady relationship? Or did you just expect her to be more flirty?

When you have unrealistic expectations or unrealized expectations, someone will be disappointed.
It would seem you're disappointed because you don't "know" how she feels about you.

The real question is why you are concerned with her feelings. think of yourself for a change. Let her worry about her feelings.
 

Crank_It_Up

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why waste time? Ask her out on a date and you'll find out real quick.
 

CLOONEY

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Was she drinking........?

If yes, she is probably embarrassed, but probably still likes you.
If no, she probably still likes you, she is just waiting for you to show your ballz and ask her out.

Girls LOVE guys who take inititative and show them that you are a man.

Ask her out.........what else do you want to hear...........?
 
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