"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When she plays games.

babemaster2000

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So here's the story. Last friday I went to prom with this girl (underclassmen), who was all over me. At school today, she wouldn't give me any eye contact, even when I returned her camera case! WTF?!?

I figured there were a couple reasons for this. 1. she is not interested anymore (highly unlikely) or 2. she is playing "uninterested" (this girl doesn't have too much exp. w/ guys)

What should I do? I've thought of making her jealous by flirting w/ other chicks when she's around (but I'm afraid tooverdo it b/c she's new to this) or just by playing it cool and hoping for her to approach me.

What do you guys think? Try to grab up as much info, just play it cool, or find another girl?

THANKS GUYS:D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Big Pappy

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Have you considered the idea that she didn't enjoy herself?

Or, perhaps she just wanted to go to prom, not go with you specifically.

Or, perhaps she left the camera case behind on purpose. Either way, you should have let her come get it, instead of you delivering it.

If she's new to the game - what game?

This is your life. It's not really a game, is it?

What were you expecting from her? A steady relationship? Or did you just expect her to be more flirty?

When you have unrealistic expectations or unrealized expectations, someone will be disappointed.
It would seem you're disappointed because you don't "know" how she feels about you.

The real question is why you are concerned with her feelings. think of yourself for a change. Let her worry about her feelings.
 

Crank_It_Up

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why waste time? Ask her out on a date and you'll find out real quick.
 

CLOONEY

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Was she drinking........?

If yes, she is probably embarrassed, but probably still likes you.
If no, she probably still likes you, she is just waiting for you to show your ballz and ask her out.

Girls LOVE guys who take inititative and show them that you are a man.

Ask her out.........what else do you want to hear...........?
 
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