"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When she jokes about having small boobs....

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Amen.

And guys, he said generally speaking, before you start ranting about "I know this girl who..."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DarkLight said:
LMAO!
too funny.

And yes... your sh!t was lame.
Titties dropped some good science.

Besides the suave rebuddles, that keep a stainless perception of you (smoothing her over)...
situations like those, are also great escalation moments.
Why you ask?
... Cause she's open and vulnerable in the air of her insecurities.
Your the one in power, and she needs the re-assurance of value.

A simple... "Hey!" Getting her to look up, and meet your gaze.
A strong pimp sexy look of value... (telling her that you don't allow such self-defeating attitudes in your presence. Which indirectly credits your own value, and power. Let your look tell her, everything is beautiful in my presence. Like your the fountain of creation itself. i.e. A GOD!)... then you lean in and kiss her like the night and shining prince of her dreams.

Such a little moment can become the total opportunity of pvssy-melting ownership, that a DJ waits for. Its all how you respond!

Peace'

By far the best comment posted to this thread. I can tell dark really knows his chit.
 

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If she needs bigger boobs to feel better about herself....something is wrong dude. Insecurity crying out.
 

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Lost1 said:
By far the best comment posted to this thread. I can tell dark really knows his chit.
Cheers G'... ThankYou!
 
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