"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When she is AFC

zzirf25

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Basically there is this chick who started talking to me on ICQ. We talked for a few days online and we then decided to meet. Well I met her and she was a decent looking girl but not for my tastes. She was also real shy and didn't really talk much which was kind of a turn off. I talked to her for a few minutes and since I really wasn't interested in her I didn't date/number close. The past few days she has been messaging me and I don't reply back because I don't wanna lead her on. She is constantly sending me messages asking me where I am at and when I will be online. It has been almost a week since I stop messaging and she still messages me.

I now have just a SMALL taste of how a chick feels when you are get AFC over them and don't know when to quit pursuing. I don't need any advice on how to handle the situation because I have it under control, I just felt showing the other side of the coin that girls can be just as AFC guys can.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AA423

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You shold probually just be honest with her.

say soemthing like "hey, you're a nice girl, but not really my type"
 

DJ4Real

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You're doing the exact opposite of your intentions. By ignoring her, you're creating mystery for her. In other words, you're just adding wood to the fire. So, if you want her off of your back, try being "nice" to her. You could also try being honest and just telling her that you're not interested like that in her. Only problem with being honest: she'll try much harder to get you to like her. I mean, if you think she has potential, then tell her the truth. If she has no potential, then just be nice and act friendly to her. :cool:
 

Emperiorjack

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Lol tell her that your in love with her and you want her to have your baby. and bring up possible marriage plans lol . After that just watch her freak the **** out and ignore you.:D
 
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