"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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When she is AFC

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zzirf25

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Basically there is this chick who started talking to me on ICQ. We talked for a few days online and we then decided to meet. Well I met her and she was a decent looking girl but not for my tastes. She was also real shy and didn't really talk much which was kind of a turn off. I talked to her for a few minutes and since I really wasn't interested in her I didn't date/number close. The past few days she has been messaging me and I don't reply back because I don't wanna lead her on. She is constantly sending me messages asking me where I am at and when I will be online. It has been almost a week since I stop messaging and she still messages me.

I now have just a SMALL taste of how a chick feels when you are get AFC over them and don't know when to quit pursuing. I don't need any advice on how to handle the situation because I have it under control, I just felt showing the other side of the coin that girls can be just as AFC guys can.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You shold probually just be honest with her.

say soemthing like "hey, you're a nice girl, but not really my type"
 
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You're doing the exact opposite of your intentions. By ignoring her, you're creating mystery for her. In other words, you're just adding wood to the fire. So, if you want her off of your back, try being "nice" to her. You could also try being honest and just telling her that you're not interested like that in her. Only problem with being honest: she'll try much harder to get you to like her. I mean, if you think she has potential, then tell her the truth. If she has no potential, then just be nice and act friendly to her. :cool:
 
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Lol tell her that your in love with her and you want her to have your baby. and bring up possible marriage plans lol . After that just watch her freak the **** out and ignore you.:D
 
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