"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When she is AFC

zzirf25

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Basically there is this chick who started talking to me on ICQ. We talked for a few days online and we then decided to meet. Well I met her and she was a decent looking girl but not for my tastes. She was also real shy and didn't really talk much which was kind of a turn off. I talked to her for a few minutes and since I really wasn't interested in her I didn't date/number close. The past few days she has been messaging me and I don't reply back because I don't wanna lead her on. She is constantly sending me messages asking me where I am at and when I will be online. It has been almost a week since I stop messaging and she still messages me.

I now have just a SMALL taste of how a chick feels when you are get AFC over them and don't know when to quit pursuing. I don't need any advice on how to handle the situation because I have it under control, I just felt showing the other side of the coin that girls can be just as AFC guys can.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AA423

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You shold probually just be honest with her.

say soemthing like "hey, you're a nice girl, but not really my type"
 

DJ4Real

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You're doing the exact opposite of your intentions. By ignoring her, you're creating mystery for her. In other words, you're just adding wood to the fire. So, if you want her off of your back, try being "nice" to her. You could also try being honest and just telling her that you're not interested like that in her. Only problem with being honest: she'll try much harder to get you to like her. I mean, if you think she has potential, then tell her the truth. If she has no potential, then just be nice and act friendly to her. :cool:
 

Emperiorjack

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Lol tell her that your in love with her and you want her to have your baby. and bring up possible marriage plans lol . After that just watch her freak the **** out and ignore you.:D
 
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