"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When She Giggles Too Much...Slap Her?

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I am almost positive I hooked this girl. But now there is a problem.

We did something last week for the first time in a real relaxed setting...kinda a pre-date and now all she does is GIGGLE. You might think this is good but it is starting to drive me a little nutty (I don't show it ofcourse).

I was talking to her on the phone and she would just giggle at alot of the things I said even though they were not even jokes...not in the least bit.

I see her at work and either I will say something to her and she will just stare at me with a smile and giggle or she will say something to me, I will respond and then she will just giggle and smile.

How the hell am I supposed to keep a convo going when she just giggles after 70% of the things I say?

Am I going to have to slap a b!tch?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That means she’s so emotionally into you she can't help but feel good and giggle and everything you say.

It's time to take her for a 3 mile adventure 6 inches at a time.
 

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That little girl loves you, acting insecure will F*CK that up;)
 

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Originally posted by Qmanchoo

It's time to take her for a 3 mile adventure 6 inches at a time.
:crackup:

Shezzler, yours was good too

I guess I am looking for C+F lines or other things to say when she brings the convo to a dead hault with her giggles.

I can keep it going just fine when she responds...but it stumps me when I get giggles since those seem to not trigger my brain.

Me:Says something
Her:Giggles
Me: Pulls something decent out of my @ss
Her: Giggles
Me: Stumped
 

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sounds like she's totally into you, so why not grab her and kiss her to get her to shut up?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by the12thplanet
sounds like she's totally into you, so why not grab her and kiss her to get her to shut up?
He nailed it. She likes you and you are spinning your wheels. Don't do that. I screwed my chances w/ alot of chicks in my AFC days by procrastinating, wondering, waiting for everything to be 'right'. Don't do that. Learn from my mistakes.

--Crowes
 

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k...first thing first..I think she's really over u. So u want a gigle 4 ur witty humour and not becuz of her funny ass. Dats cool too.
Try this
YOU: Says sumpin
HER: Giggles
YOU: Hey ur giggle reminded me of a funny incident
HER: Go ahead(Even more excited and even more prepared to giggle).
YOU: Well I was takin' a short walk yesterday evening, and ye know, a hot looking women (pause) , yeah she was really good looking though, just comes upto me and was asking for the time
HER: un-huh...Giggles(Even more excited)
YOU: Looked at my watch and said it was 5:00 and she started to giggle...lol..don't u think its so funny

lol... that will surely put some sense in her:D
 

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I am not spinning my wheels. Am I supposed to grab her and kiss her at work? No...I would rather avoid being fired since I have already been disciplined for macking on the females while on the clock.

we went on one "pre-date". It has been 3 days since then...that is hardly spinning my wheels...that is playing it cool which women are attracted to. Next time I see her, I am betting she will mention doing something again with me to which I will comply. I will give her the chance to chase me, if not...this girl is worth it and I will make a cool and subtle move to get us alone for the first time in a competitive situation.

All this if she stops doing her giggle thing and responds with english:D
 

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Originally posted by D^G4m3
k...first thing first..I think she's really over u. So u want a gigle 4 ur witty humour and not becuz of her funny ass. Dats cool too.
Try this
YOU: Says sumpin
HER: Giggles
YOU: Hey ur giggle reminded me of a funny incident
HER: Go ahead(Even more excited and even more prepared to giggle).
YOU: Well I was takin' a short walk yesterday evening, and ye know, a hot looking women (pause) , yeah she was really good looking though, just comes upto me and was asking for the time
HER: un-huh...Giggles(Even more excited)
YOU: Looked at my watch and said it was 5:00 and she started to giggle...lol..don't u think its so funny

lol... that will surely put some sense in her:D
This is very corny. Your girl sound immature in the dating department. I would just keep doing what you're doing. Maybe be more receptive and playful with her. And if you like her ask her out on a date. And don't play games like getting her to chase you. It's not a big deal if you like her and she like you to just start dating.
 

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She's nervous around you.

It'll pass.

2 yrs down the line, the b#tch won't even crack a smile.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Try This

Her: Giggling
You: You know until know - i always thoughtni had potential to be a comedian - but people would always write me off - now i know that i could be the next Dave Chappell/Otis Crenshaw - depending on your skin colour. - say the opposite

Her: Giggles lol

It sounds like it dosnt matter what you say - just say something remotely funny - heres one

What did one cookie say to the other cookie when he got run over by a car

Oh Crumbs!

Good Luck DJ

hahah thats actually pretty funny, just the way i can see it delivered in my head would make me laugh. lol did you make that one up?
 

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I've been in a similar situation. I'm not positive that this is her problem, but I agree- I think she's definetly nervous.

The girl I was with would make this "eeeeeeeee eeeeeee" sound just to be fawking annoying cause she thought it was funny.

I had already slept with her, but she was terrified she'd lose me and I wouldn't become her boyfriend.

If you're asking for a way to get her to stop, make her more comfortable. If you like her that much assure her that you do and she's satisfyin u.

If u haven't hit it- do, because she's totally into u.
 

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I went out with a girl like this just last night. Everything I said or did, she would turn her head and giggle like a retard. So what did I do? I mocked her, of course...

Me: <says something dumb>
Her: <Giggles>
Me: Heeheeehee (in a mocking tone)
Her: Stop making fun of me!

This went on intermittently throughout the whole night. Result? We had sexual fvcking intercourse! I can't promise you this was the only reason why, but I don't screw with what works.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by ezilonman
:crackup:

Shezzler, yours was good too

I guess I am looking for C+F lines or other things to say when she brings the convo to a dead hault with her giggles.

I can keep it going just fine when she responds...but it stumps me when I get giggles since those seem to not trigger my brain.

Me:Says something
Her:Giggles
Me: Pulls something decent out of my @ss
Her: Giggles
Me: Stumped
She's obviously into you, why are you still trying to bust out new C&F material? Bone her!
 

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lmfao
 

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It seems like your not feeling her because she is annoying you. I don't know about you but I DONT want to be around girls that annoy me. Too many others just out there besides, I got sh*t to do. But if she's hot and you like her, and wanna feel her out-bone her then sit back and see how she reacts. If she's still giggling, hit the eject button and call it a day. If she chills out- look at what the power of what your mighty Johnson did-put a nervouse girl to rest. What a generous man you are.
 

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whats the problem? yea you can slap her and she would only just giggle some more.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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