"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When she asks questions but you don’t get the number close

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Saw this banging girl at the gym. Started talking to her, fine as ****. Fortunately my current plate is fine as hell so she was no big deal to me.

After a bit of flirting with her, she engaged in my conversation. I find out she has a 16 year old kid, and she gets shocked when I tell her I’m 27 she thought I was older.

She asks me what my nationality was, what I did for a living etc.

Went for the number close invited her to workout at a private gym I have she hits me with “I appreciate the invite. But I’m sure I’ll see you around”

Very friendly, but just curious where I went wrong.
 

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What was the age on this girl?
Considering her kid is 16 she must have been atleast 30+ which makes you abit younger than her. My guess her being apparently shocked about your age tells me she's hung up over it and considering her being a mother, she wants a 'man', as in reliable provider, macho kind of potential father figure for her kid and categorized you quickly into 'probably immature, too young, just banging' category. Single mothers are quite sure of what they want. I'm saying this out of experience.
Besides, immediately invite to a private gym? Sounds quite creepy honestly. Why would she want to go there when she probably attend classes in this regular gym aswell, like most girls do. So she took the polite route, for now.
 
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Nothing went wrong. You had a conversation and that was that.
 
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Inviting strangers to a private gym when they already have a membership to their current gym sounds very creepy to be honest.
Even I wouldn't accept that invitation.

To me that sounds like:
"Wanna go back to my barn so I can drug you and rape you?"
 
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Epic Days said:
Nothing went wrong. You had a conversation and that was that.
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Yeah with a gym validation seeker. Or you came off as creepy when you went for the number.

That's what went wrong.
 

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I guess if a woman doesn’t give a man her number, he must have done something wrong. LMAO

There are guys here pointing out what the OP “did wrong”.
 
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